We all have unique working styles and personalities. So, I'd start by looking at which of the following you struggle the most with:

- Balance
- Discipline

If you struggle with **balance,** you need better *boundaries*.

If you struggle with **discipline,** you need more *structure*.

So, what does this look like in practice?

### Ideas for better **boundaries**:

- Having clear start and end times for your workday
- Create a "transition" between work and home life. This could be brain-dumping your work tasks, doing a short meditation and taking some time to decompress.
- Keep work email off your phone and leave your laptop closed outside of working hours.
- Take frequent breaks. I like using a Pomodoro timer for a 5 minute break every 30 minutes.

### Ideas for more **structure**:

- Have a dedicated workspace. Physical separation will keep distractions away.
- Keep your phone on silent during the workday.
- Timeblock everything. Set aside time for dedicated coding work.
- Set clear priorities at the beginning of the day. Pick one or two tasks at the beginning of the day and them before everything else.

### Ideas for all working styles

These are the things that I've personally found useful:

- Dress in "work" clothes. It doesn't matter what they are but wearing different clothes to be camera-ready gets in me into work mode.
- Walks outside every day. I find feeling the sun on my shoulders to be crucial for my mood.
- Balance out the mental work with activities that feed your emotional, physical and spiritual sides. This could be going to the gym, conversation with a friend, virtual lunches or meditation. You have to be more intentional about adding these when working remotely.
- Spend time away from screens. This includes all screens - TVs, phones, etc. Create time for your mind and eyes to decompress.

At the end of the day, it comes down to feeling into what you need in the moment. Some days you may need more discipline. Other days you may need more balance. Feel into what you need and use the tips above as a guide.

Senior Engineer @ Amazon, Founder @ Roman Yusufov Coaching

Roman Yusufov

Getting to SDE3 was one of the *hardest* steps of my career. It ultimately took *4 years* to get there from the time I was hired. I went through a lot of frustration because I either didn't understand the process, didn't have enough buy-in at the start of projects or had to navigate circumstances outside my control (descoped projects, canceled roadmaps, etc).

So, I wanted to share some things I learned along the way.

There are a few key things that need to align to get the SDE3 promo:

1. **Being a solid SDE2 performer.** Work with someone you trust to assess your readiness for the next level. I personally struggled here because I tried to get to SDE3 while I had significant gaps to fill at SDE2.
2. **Having a good manager.** This isn't always within your control but I believe a good manager is responsible for up to ***40% of your promotion success***. Promotions at Amazon are manager-driven. The groundwork starts long before your promotion panel. There are two parts to this:
   1. How experienced and comfortable they are with the promotion process. They have to line up the projects, get stakeholder buy-in, write the promotion doc and ultimately advocate for you in front of the review panel. I've seen multiple botched promotions where the manager was either underprepared, failed to gather the right data or wasn't confident enough when challenged by the panel.
   2. The quality of the data they're able to gather to support your promotion. Part of this comes from you. You have to provide the right quality, delivery and performance metrics of your projects. The rest comes from them gathering the right feedback from key stakeholders and their own assessment of your performance.
3. **The right scope of technical work for SDE3.** This is one of the most challenging parts. Unfortunately, there's no magic formula for this. But, there are a few things you can do to help yourself in this process. \
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   First, you need to understand what SDE3 scope looks like. You can do this by reviewing designs from current SDE3s, talking to more senior engineers and getting feedback from your manager. \
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   The next step is finding the right scope project. This is where most people struggle. Below are some ideas but by no means an exhaustive list:
   1. Finding the right project in the existing roadmap. You can work with your manager to assess the complexity of planned projects and which ones will fit the SDE3 bar.
   2. Finding projects that can be expanded in scope. The right scope can come from the way you deliver a project and not the initial set of requirements. Even with limited initial functionality, you can propose a bigger technical vision that can support the future expansion of the product. You don't have to deliver on the whole vision to get credit for the design. The key is to keep the initial deliverable simple but showcase the considerations that went into making it scalable and expandable.
   3. Look for problems with large impact that no one else is solving. I've seen Principal-level projects dealing with metrics improvements. The difference was in how they solved it. Instead of solving the problem for a single team, they solved it for the whole company.
   4. Networking with other engineers and managers. If your team doesn't have the scope you need, you want to be on the radar of other teams that may have the right scope. This requires visiblity into other teams.
   5. There's a "hidden" option that I'll discuss in the bullet point on documentation.\
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      Lastly, make sure to get any proposed project vetted and approved *before* you start it. This is ***crucial***. When I was still at Amazon, there was an official process for doing this (although it wasn't required). This will save you a lot of frustration dealing with last-minute disagreements about scope.
4. **Demonstrating LPs at the L6 level.** As you already know, LPs are at the center of all roles at Amazon. Having the technical skills and projects isn't enough. You need to demonstrate the key LPs required at the L6 level. This includes Think Big, Are Right a Lot, Hire and Develop the Best, and Invent and Simplify. These are the major differentiators at the L6 level but all the others are important as well.\
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   SDE3 is a team lead role at Amazon (although there's no official team lead role at Amazon). You have to demonstrate the ability to deliver through others, force multiply and drive influence within and outside your team.
5. **Getting buy-in from key stakeholders.** This is a "behind the scenes" thing most people don't realize. Not only do you need other SDE3s to validate the complexity of your projects but you need other key L6+ stakeholders to provide feedback that you're operating at the L6 level. I forget the exact number (Alex's statement that it's 6 people may be right).\
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   But, the important part is that you have to demonstrate this through your limited interactions with these people. The stakeholders include PMs, TPMs, SDMs of partner teams and senior managers. The more the better. You can't ask for this feedback directly so you have to work through your manager to solicit and process this feedback.
6. **Having the right documentation.** You need a solid portfolio of work to demonstrate your growth. This is particularly important if you've switched multiple teams and projects as you're working on your SDE3 promo. Your manager won't have visibility into your past work. They will talk to your previous SDMs (if they're still around) but it's always better to create all the necessary documentation in real time than hope you can gather it later.\
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   There is also an option to get promoted based on "portfolio complexity" rather than individual projects. This is what happened to me. After working on multiple projects that didn't hit the complexity bar on their own, my manager was able to make a case for promo based on my portfolio of work. I hit all the right checkboxes in at least one of my projects.

There is a lot more I could say on this topic but I will leave it here for now. If you have any questions, feel free to post a reply.