Hi all, I'm prepping for a behavioral interview and have gone through the courses on behavioral interviews and communication. They were both super helpful, so thank you for that!
I was wondering if anyone has developed any ideas for how to respond to a great weakness. Often, it feels like people use this as an opportunity to humble brag (e.g. "I don't take enough breaks", "I can fixate on a problem too hard", etc.). Maybe these are terrible examples...
In the past, I've gone with "I don't multitask" because I mostly try to focus on one task before moving on to another. But I also don't want this to land poorly when interviewing at a startup.
Any thoughts or suggestions?
IMO when people ask this question you should answer it as - "Here is something I have struggled with in the past, but here's the strategy I've used to overcome this". This allows you to be a little vulnerable / self aware, but also allows you to show in an authentic manner why that isn't a reason not to hire you
Eg - "at times I've struggled with public speaking, which I think earlier in my career hurt me because of X. However, I've taken classes and now make sure to present at every available opportunity. I'm continuing to work on this by doing Y and Z"
In your multitasking example, you could potentially say "I struggle with context switching at times, but what I do is i) maintain a daily task list which I use to prioritize the most important task at any given time ii) make use of focus blocks early in the morning. This has reduced the overhead needed for me to context switch as well as allow me to make uninterrupted progress on my key tasks"
Thank you! Thinking about overcoming a struggle/challenge helps a lot. That gives me a lot of directions to go in
For inspiration, I recommend checking out Philip Su's (ChatGPT engineer, ex-Meta/Microsoft engineering leader) incredible response about being self-aware here: "What's the core insight behind quick growth?"
As I talked about in the course, simply being honest will get you 90% of the way there. Nobody is perfect, and your goal with this question is to truly and genuinely realize why you aren't perfect (instead of falling into the failure mode of giving a fake weakness like "I work too hard"). From there, you can just to vocalize that and explain what you do to combat that weakness - Every good person is always striving for self-improvement, so this should feel natural.
The remaining 10% is narrative structure. For this question, it's:
There are many "evergreen" weaknesses which are perfect for this question. As an example for me, I rabbit-hole unnecessarily a lot, missing the forest for the trees. It's always tempting as an engineer to dive deeper into issues, but the problem is that 95% of issues don't actually matter in the long-term. It's important to regularly "come up for air" as an engineer, view all your tasks holistically, and do a reprioritization exercise to ensure that you're working on the right problems. This is a critical concept, which is why I dedicated a large portion of my productivity course to it: https://www.jointaro.com/course/maximize-your-productivity-as-a-software-engineer/the-productivity-giant-you-are-missing/
Frankly, I feel like everyone on the Taro team struggles with the weakness I just mentioned, haha.
In the past, I've gone with "I don't multitask" because I mostly try to focus on one task before moving on to another.
Side note: This doesn't feel like a real weakness, just a working style preference. I imagine it wouldn't land well with a startup either as startup engineers are constantly context switching.
There are 2 failure modes with weakness:
The tricky part of this question is that you need to find a more nuanced and grounded weakness where it's true but it's not a low-hanging fruit weakness that is emblematic of a bad engineer who nobody wants to hire (e.g. poor code quality). The good news is that every human on Earth has those more nuanced weaknesses. You just need to introspect.
Thanks for the well-thought-out response, Alex. This was super helpful. I'll check out the links above and do some more introspection so that I can come up with a better "weakness weakness" that doesn't make me look terrible haha