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I did something stupid. I lied in the standup and then they asked me for showing my results.

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Mid-Level Software Engineer at Taro Community5 months ago

I lied in the standup. I said that I completed a task but I didn't. I was not even close to complete that task.

After they ask me for a demo within 1 hour and then I had to say I was having some issues with the project and the meeting should be cancelled.

How screwed I am?
I feel I lost the trust of my team in my work. How can I recover from this situation?

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    Tech Lead @ Robinhood, Meta, Course Hero
    5 months ago

    ngl, I cringed a bit from reading this 😬. The good news is that the first step is being self-aware, and you're doing that now!

    As you have certainly figured out by now, honesty is the best policy. I would apologize to the team saying that you weren't nearly as close to being done as you initially thought and you'll need X amount of time (a few days, a few weeks, whatever it is) to finish and have a demo everyone can be proud of.

    This is a very awkward topic, but that also means it's a great thing to talk about in the next 1 on 1 with your manager. You can apologize again personally there and talk more about how to resolve this issue.

    On top of that, I recommend looking back and reflecting. Why did you choose to lie in standup?

    • Everyone else on your team is crushing it and you feel pressure to perform?
    • This task has been behind for a while now and you just want to be able to finally say that it's done?
    • The initial estimate you gave for the task was a wild underestimate?

    If it's the peer pressure one, I recommend this: "How do I not compare myself to others in my career?"

    If it's a timeline/poor scoping out issue, I recommend these:

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    Supportive Tarodactyl
    Taro Community
    5 months ago

    Say something like "I misinterpreted the completion criteria and I'm actually not done"

    This gives you a way to save face and is conceivably true -- there are varying definitions of "task completion".