Hi everyone,
I recently had my bi-annual performance review in a FAANG-like tech company, where I was evaluated against four key pillars: project impact, craft excellence, direction, and organizational impact. However, the feedback I received was an overall "met expectations" rating without specific details on how I fared within each pillar for individual tasks.
I'm now looking to engage in a follow-up discussion with my manager to gain a more granular understanding of my performance. Specifically, I want to discuss:
Any advice on initiating this conversation respectfully and productively would be incredibly helpful!
Thanks for your insights!
Do a lot of the work for your manager. Create a matrix of the 4 pillars with the expectations for your level (mid-level) copied from the official guide at your company.
Then write your own evaluation about how you're doing in each category, and what you plan on doing. Make this easy to read, e.g. color code each pillar with red, yellow, green based on how you think you're doing.
Share this with your manager and ask to go over it and collect feedback in the next 1:1.
If you were cynical, you'd say that people like to correct more than they like to help. Whatever the reason, this is pretty effective in forcing a deeper discussion.
We talk about this more in the onboarding masterclass: [Masterclass] How To Succeed At A New Team Or Company As A Software Engineer
In general, frame every communication for topics like these in terms of mutual interest. In this situation:
You can run something like: "Hey [manager], thank you for sharing the Meets Expectations rating - I am glad to have a solid foundation on the team. I would love to understand exactly how I can improve and add even more value to the team - Would you mind walking me through each axis and how I can improve?"
This is very rough as I recommend anchoring the conversation with specific axes and projects where you are pretty confident that there was large room for improvement. This shows that you are putting mental effort to make the conversation as effective and efficient as possible as opposed to lazily putting out an open-ended request for more feedback/information.
These 2 videos aren't exactly about your question but are quite related:
Big thanks to Alex and Rahul for offering such invaluable insights on how to tackle this situation. Your advice is truly appreciated and incredibly beneficial.