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Navigating through a “forced” career break

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I got offers from 2 companies. Company A is a unicorn while company B is a well-funded series B startup.

I need to go back to my country to serve in the army for a year. Company A doesn’t have an internship program and has essentially asked me to either pick the army or the company (also in-person). On the other hand, company B has an internship program and can do remote work. My goal is to be able to return to the US and work full-time after serving in the army. I might be able to get a 1-year deferral from my home country, though that would take a lot of effort and chances of success are low. I’m a dual citizen with Canada so managing TN visa is easier compared to H1-B.

My military duties start in late Aug 2025. I have several options I’ve come up with:

  1. Give up entirely on company A. Intern at company B for summer ‘25 and hope for an RO for ‘26 new grad while going to the army.
  2. Work at company A for 3 months. Work remotely at company B while I’m in the military and use company B to get back into the US. The workload would be extremely high and I doubt that it’d be sustainable. Hopefully crush it at company A such that they’ll want me back (not sure how likely this’ll be). Worst case at least company A would be a brand name on my resume and my work experience at A would be more like an internship (would this be a viable argument?).
  3. Defer my military duties to Aug ‘26, work at company A from Jun ‘25 - Aug ‘26. When I come back, hope that I do well enough to return to company A.
  4. Defer military duties to Aug ‘26. Intern at company B for the summer ‘25, then work for company A from Aug 2025 - Aug 2026 (so barely hitting the 1-year vest). Start military duties in Sep 2026. By then I (hopefully) would’ve gotten an RO from company B, and I can start working remotely for company B. The workload would be extremely high and I doubt that it’d be sustainable.

My main concern is that the job market is so hard right now that it’s not like I can wake up and get a job when I want one. Company A is also my top choices during this job search. My fear is that going to the army will close the US door for good. Would like some advice on ranking these options.

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Posted 4 months ago
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What is the expected behavior of an SDE 2 & SDE 3 when given a feature request?

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I work in a high-growth, scaled startup where my organization builds revenue-generating platforms and forms small teams to create new verticals. However, we face challenges such as fast-tracked, inexperienced engineering managers (EMs) who disrupt work-life balance and often expect overtime or weekend work.

Feature requests are typically communicated via Slack messages or one-liners, with frequent status updates focused on completion. There is significant bias and favoritism, yet I can operate in such an environment. Although I know the best long-term solution might be to move to big tech or a more stable team, I’m seeking advice on how to behave in this current setting.

I avoid responding to negative remarks within the team because the EM’s typical reaction to any request is dismissive, suggesting that bugs shouldn't happen or that tasks should be managed independently. I was down-leveled upon joining this team from a similar toxic environment but have since been promoted to SDE 2. My senior, an SDE 3, also struggles emotionally, which makes me question whether this is common in leadership across companies of similar scale and situation.

How do you handle working in such an environment? I am currently taking a course on managing up, which seems relevant. I focus solely on my tasks and avoid reacting to negativity, which is appreciated, but I’ve stopped working weekends due to shifting priorities and deliverables. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

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Posted 10 months ago
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