I signed an offer with a company but I feel like I made the wrong choice. I have a few friends in the company (albeit not close) who say they really like the company, and the engineers I talk to during the interview seem to have the same vibe as well. However, when I look at reviews on Blind and Glassdoor, the reviews seem to say that the company is horrible - extremely poor wlb, toxic culture, poor leadership, low pay, etc.
I've tried asking questions on Blind. With Blind, you're going to get responses that are skewed pretty negatively. With Reddit, not many people know about the company.
Personally, I really like this company. I can definitely see myself being happy there. My friends have similar work-styles like mine, so I think I'd enjoy it. Normally, I'd ignore negative reviews here and there, but sheer number of negative reviews makes it pretty hard to ignore, so I don't know who to trust.
I think I am a position where I'm either getting really positive or negative views of a company. I don't know how to get a more "well-rounded" view of a company, and I'm wondering if there are any tips on how to get a more unbiased take?